So... erm... I sent the new chapter of
Obsession off to my Beta over a month ago and haven't heard anything back... at all.
When I originally contacted her about slaying my chapter with red text, she'd said her que was extremely short, that she was working through it all that week and to send it on over. I dropped her a line yesterday but haven't heard anything yet.
(Mind, real life can sometimes get in the way of our best intentions, look how long it's taken me to get the blasted thing written in the first place lol)
So knowing that RL does happen now and then (LOL) I went back to the site I had gotten her Beta info from, to see if there was an update about any hiccups she may be experiencing at present... Only she's not listed at all anymore, so I did the only thing I could do. Google.
Well, I've found her LJ (score) but that was even worse. Now I just feel horrible! Her last entry was a few days before I contacted her about Beating up my chap'. In which she mentions blood pressure problems and saving for a sonogram-guided biopsy for breast cancer as she has no insurance. I feel rotten I didn't know any of this before hand otherwise I wouldn't dare have even asked! She's just such a good beta that I contacted her straight away when my chapter was completed.
Now I'm kind of in limbo I guess. Having waited a month already and answered reviews stating that an update was just around the corner... how long is a polite period to wait for an e-mail response? .. AND.. Would it be bad form to try and find another Beta, knowing that she is having some pretty big health problems, without having heard a reply.
I don't want to commit some Beta faux-pas and end out insulting her.
Any advice/suggestions would be welcome!